About
Sometimes you start something and then get clear affirmation that this is what you’re suppose to do…
A few weeks after beginning this blog, our church had White Bucket Sunday. The teaching that morning was about the early church and how the people shared everything in common. At the end of the teaching that morning, white buckets were placed around the stage. We were then asked to evaluate our lives right now. Did we have more money than we needed and could share with others? Or did we need money to help cover the bills that were piling up? Either way, we were instructed to come to the buckets; to put money in if we could or to take money out if that is what we needed. I have never experienced anything quite like that before.
…this has become my white bucket project.
A little about me…
I’m a stay-at-home mom to two little boys and have been married to my best friend Matt for 8 years. We live on 6 acres in the house where my grandparents lived most of my childhood.
With the downturn of the economy, we’ve also had to reevaluate where our money is going. How do we make less money stretch further so we are able to pay our bills and continue to give to others?
This site stems out of that question.
Give me neither poverty nor riches,
but give me only my daily bread.
Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you and say, ‘Who is the LORD?’
Or I may become poor and steal, and so dishonor the name of my God.”
Proverbs 30:7-8 (TNIV)
What we didn’t know when I started Give Me Neither is that we’d be adopting from South Africa. So saving has taken on a whole new dimension in our lives.
My desire is that my life be an outpouring of the love and generosity that Christ shows me. May it not be about me.



























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Hi! I just stumbled over from Macomb Money Savers because of your Family Fare post. I thought I’d read your About section to see if you were local (since you were writing about Family Fare, and their locations are pretty limited), but I had no idea your mission was inspired by the White Bucket Project. Ohmygosh! I was at Mars Hill that Sunday. It was AMAZING. What a great church, and what a great day to find another ‘like minded’ blogger in the area. Kudos!
Hi, I just found you through Mojo Savings, and I just wanted to say thank you for your witness to the Lord. I am inspired. God bless you.
Welcome Tamara!
Em., that Sunday was amazing. It will forever be in my mind. The church is beautiful when we follow the heart of Jesus…
I just wanted to tell you what a beautiful blog you have…it has depth and must spread God’s blessings to many people (moms) each day. God’s peace, Jeanette
Thank you. That’s my hope.
What a neat site! I love the idea (verse) behind the website’s title. That verse will help me to remember to empty my stockpile out more regularly and donate to charity. May God bless your family as you head down the road towards adoption-I will pray for you!
Welcome Yvonne! Thanks for the prayers too.
Wow! What an inspiring blog! I’m inspired at watching you and how you take the time not only to be frugal and content with what you have, but also how you meticulously keep track of your resources (money and time). I’m thankful for the reminder. Reminds me of the parable about the master that entrusted the 3 servants with different amounts of money. I’d say you’re doing a good job and I’d like to get a lot better in that area too. Thank you so much for sharing with all of us. May God richly bless you and your family :)
-Wendy- Mid-Willamette Valley area, Oregon
Do you have a regular newsletter that I can sign up for. I have just stumbled upon your website and love it. Thanks for all of your information and I pray God continues to use you to enrich other’s lives.
God Bless
Thanks!
Trish, I’m glad that you found Give Me Neither. You can sign up for the newsletter here http://feedburner.google.com/fb/a/mailverify?uri=GiveMeNeither
Aww, I just love your blog title! You hit it right on!
Thank you, Erica!
Someone from our church just referred me to your site. How exciting that you are adopting! We adopted our son 2 1/2 years ago from Guatemala, he is wonderful (he is 8 1/2). I will pray for you and your husband as you embark on this sometimes overwhelming, but wonderful journey. Three verses that we clung to (among many) during our adoption was Jeremiah 29:11-13. Love your site!
Welcome Kari. I’m glad you’re here. My sister brought home a child from Ethiopia almost 2 years ago. Her little guy is such a blessing.